Teaching your child to fend for himself

You can teach your child to fend for himself from an early, with simple tasks.
For example, if he asks you for some water, don't serve him yourself.
Tell him that he can go and get the bottle of water from the cupboard. Congratulate him for lifting the bottle on his own. Then choose a glass together and hold it whilst he pours the water. It doesn't matter if he spills a bit, he'll learn for the next time!
Not only will he learn how to fend for himself, but he'll also feel very proud!